The Long Letter

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The Drawer

Every paper you might need, gathered in one afternoon, and the court words in plain language.

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Court and legal

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Words you might hear

Nobody explains these the first time. Here they are, simply.

Petitioner
The person who started the case.
Respondent
The person the case was filed against.
Served
Being officially handed court papers. Deadlines usually start counting from this day.
Summons
A notice that a case has been filed and that a response is expected.
Response
A written reply to the case. It usually has a deadline.
Default
What can happen if someone doesn't respond in time. The court may decide without hearing from them.
Hearing
A scheduled time in front of a judge or magistrate. Often shorter than people expect.
Magistrate
An officer of the court who hears some family matters and makes recommendations to the judge.
Mediation
A meeting with a neutral person to try to reach an agreement without a trial.
Parenting plan
The written plan for how parents share time with the children and make decisions about them.
Time-sharing
The schedule of when the children are with each parent.
Financial affidavit
A sworn form listing your income, expenses and debts.
Injunction for protection
A court order telling someone to stay away and have no contact.
Motion
A written request asking the court to do something.
Order
A decision from the court. It must be followed until it's changed.
Continuance
Moving a court date to a later time.
Pro se
Representing yourself, without a lawyer.

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